Who remembers the song by The Darkness? I certainly do, it takes me back to when I was at secondary school and having crushes seemed like great fun. I remember having feelings for the same guy for a number of years and it was all kind of cute. But of course I've grew up now and have been through the mill quite a bit regarding my feelings.
I mean, what is love? philosophically you'll never know if you're in love or not. You can think you're in love with someone but them you move on, meet someone new and you realize that what you once thought was love really wasn't, when does all of this thinking you're in love stop? For that matter does true love really exist? I don't even know why I'm going on about all of this stuff, I suppose I just want to clear my head.
Another thing to ponder over is whether your head and your heart can ever be at equilibrium. I mean, I've spent most of my life following my heart rather than my head, which has resulted in me making some pretty odd decisions along the way, but I lead a pretty happy life now. However, when forced to make decisions with my head, I find my that my heart disagrees majority of the time. The day my heart and my head agree with each other completely will be the day that everything seems 'perfect'.
After the detour to satisfy my brain (and share my thoughts with you) I now want to say that I believe that love is only a feeling (not necessarily drifting away). Feelings are something that you don't really have to justify, they are just there, coming from your heart. One piece of advice that I would offer to anyone is to accept your feelings whether others see them as a bad thing or not (including those who you have feelings for), never try to suppress your feelings and don't attempt to stop having feelings, I suppose feelings will drift away when you're good and ready to move on.
After all, love is what makes the world go round. Being loved and loving others is happiness.
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